Lately, things just ain't what they used to be And I don't know why Why you're not the ma you used to be In the beginning you were so good to me You made love seem like it came so naturally But now you've changed and it's so plain to see That you're not the man that you used to be In the midnight hour, I long for your touch Waiting for you to come home, oh I would miss you so much Now you don't come by And you don't call me no more Have your feelings changes I'm not sure what you're looking for "Cause baby it hurts like hell to think that you don't Want to be here in my arms And at times have you found somebody better than me 'Cause you're not the man You're not the man that you used to be You're not the man to take care of me You're not the man that loved me constantly But I understand that you're just a man That you can't be the man for me I remember the times when I was so lonely But never, ever again now I have found peace I found a new friend who knows how to hold me Someone who understands that I'm all he needs Not it feels so good to know that he wants to be Here in my arms And at times, he's the man that you used to be That you used to be You're not the man, you're not the man That took care of me You're not the man, you're not the man That loved me constantly But I understand that you're just a man That you can't be the man for me I just don't know why things have changed Between you and me But that's alright baby, 'cause I found someone to love me You're not the man, don't worry about me You're not the man